So You Want More Sex- 40 Things to Say to Guarantee Intimacy
Publisher: CenterPoint Media
Publication Year: 2017
Format: Available Fall 2017
Length: 160 pages
ISBN: 9780993984068
THIS BOOK IS AVAILABLE NOVEMBER 2017. NO MORE MAN CAVES! Unlike other relationship books that ask women to change this book points toward men and the way they have been socialized from childhood. It urges couples to work together and challenge the stereotypes and conditioning. Rather that blame genetics, Fitzgerald blames a whole society that causes men to treat women badly and asks women to accept it. By letting go of the macho and tough guy pressures, men can not only free themselves but also become the truly loving partners that women deserve.
About the Book

No more man caves!
A book for women who are frustrated – and the men who love them.
Your husband may not want to read this book. It’s not that he doesn’t care about you or your relationship; it’s just that men don’t think it’s their responsibility.
But he needs it and so do you if you both want more intimacy.
Unlike other relationship books, that suggest that men and women are equally to blame for problems and often ask women to work harder at relationships, this book points directly at our socialization and specifically at male behavior.
In a gentle yet provocative way Maureen Fitzgerald, gender expert and former lawyers says, “It’s not that men are bad people, it’s just that most men inherit some deeply engrained beliefs that are harming their relationships. And they just can’t see them.”
Does your husband or partner?
• Find it difficult to listen to you and often interrupt you?
• Barely do his share of the housework and child rearing?
• Have a hard time taking advice or directions from you?
• Tend to run away or get angry when emotions arise?
• Accuse you of nagging when you make a simple request?
Most relationship books suggest that these male behaviors are genetic and thus unchangeable. In other words, men are born this way and women must tolerate it. This book suggests otherwise.
This sure-to-be controversial book invites all good men to look in the mirror, reject the pressure to be macho and be more of the caring and strong man that attracts intimacy. Men (and women) will learn how to:
• Stop old patterns from harming your relationship
• Honor your male and female differences
• Communicate in a way that builds connection
• Tap your social and emotional intelligence
• Build a lasting and loving relationship
Pulling no punches, these 40 strategies are guaranteed to change the way we look at relationships and put an end to arguments. Fitzgerald invites us to take a fresh new look at the way we function as couples and surface our underlying mindsets and habits that are invisibly pulling us apart.

If you are tired of building man caves and truly want a loving husband this book is for you.

About the Author
Maureen F Fitzgerald, PhD

Maureen F. Fitzgerald, PhD, LLB, LLM, BComm is a recovering lawyer, author and change agent. She practiced law for over 20 years and is the founder of CenterPoint Media, a multimedia publisher of books that advance thinking.
In her former life, Maureen was a labor/policy lawyer and mediator. She was also a professor of law at two universities and has written many articles, both academic and practical.
She has a doctorate degree from University of British Columbia, a business degree from University of Alberta; a law degree from the University of Western Ontario; and a masters’ degree in law from the London School of Economics (with distinction). Maureen is author of the following books:
• Lean Out: How to dismantle the corporate barriers that hold women back. 20 Strategies for True Success!
• Motherhood is Madness: How to break the chains that prevent mothers from being truly happy. 15 Simple Solutions!
• Occupy Women: A manifesto for positive change in a world run by men. 20 Powerful Strategies!
• A Woman’s Circle - Create a peer mentoring group for advice, networking, support and connection.
• Invite the Bully to Tea - End harassment, bullying and dysfunction forever with a simple yet radical new approach.
• If not now, when? - Create a life and career of purpose with a powerful vision, a mission statement and measurable goals.
• Mindfulness Made Easy - 50 simple practices to reduce stress, create calm and live in the moment - at home, work and school.
• Hiring, Managing and Keeping the Best - The Complete Canadian Guide for Employers, with Monica Beauregard.
• So You Think You Need a Lawyer - How to Screen, Hire, Manage or Fire a Lawyer.
• Legal Problem Solving - Reasoning, Research and Writing (6thd). Lexis/Nexis
• Wake up Sleeping Beauty: Protect your daughter from sexism, stereotypes and sexualization [out in 2016]
• Mean Girls Aren’t Mean: Stand up to cliques, bullies, peer pressure and popularity and empower girls in a radical new way.[out in 2016]
• Gritty is the New Pretty- Raise confident, courageous and resilient girls in a man’s world. [out in 2016]
Always a leader of both people and ideas, she speaks on topics that promote equality, open-mindedness and justice.Her motto is: Sharing the right ideas at the right time can change the world. You can find her at

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