“If you don’t care about where you are going, any direction will do.” -Anonymous
Byron Katie’s books and her 4-step process (called “the work”) have changed my life. The easiest way to see what she does is by watching her do “the work” on YouTube. Here is a link to one of her videos: https://youtu.be/ApZ798fOG78 Here is a link to her book “Loving What Is: Four Questions That
“When people are united with their real power—the power to create what they want to create—they always choose what is highest in humanity. They choose good health, exceptional relationships and love and relevant life purpose, and peace, and challenges worthy of the human spirit.” —Robert Fritz, The Path of Least Resistance
If you are looking for a great set of guidelines for LIFE please read the rules of the “Good Red Road” in the article I just found. The Good Red Road represents a code of ethics shared by many Native American tribal communities. You can read about it here: http://perception.inner-growth.org/2017/03/07/the-good-red-road-native-american-code-of-ethics/
“Finding a mission and then fulfilling it is perhaps the most vital activity in which a person can engage.” —Richard Leider and David A. Shapiro, Repacking Your Bags
Fifty years ago French feminist thinker Simone de Beauvoir proclaimed in The Second Sex (1952): “One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.” With these electrifying words de Beauvoir asserted that women were defined not through biology or psychology, but through the social and cultural experience of having to constantly be the “other”
Here is my favorite relationship book of all time: “How to be an Adult in Relationships” by David Richo. It is published by one of my favorite publishers: Shambhala (London). Richo introduces five keys to mindful loving: Attention; Acceptance; Allowing freedom; Appreciation; and Affection. The bottom line is that both men and women must
“Jesus Christ knew he was God. So wake up and find out eventually who you really are. In our culture, of course, they’ll say you’re crazy and you’re blasphemous, and they’ll either put you in jail or in a nut house (which is pretty much the same thing). However if you wake up in
I just got my first death threat. I am terrified. It was in response to an article I wrote this week on Toxic Masculinity and how it harms men and relationships. I got a four-paragraph, graphically violent (think men’s genitals) e-mail death threat. Words like “I want to choke you until you die” type
“What frightens you of the great unknown – disappointment, being let down, ignored, denied your worth? Whatever you’re afraid of, your feeling isn’t separate from you; it’s your projection; it’s what you expect. You fear failure because you expect failure because you have failed in the past. You fear abandonment because you expect abandonment